Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Matthew's Arrival

MATTHEW'S HERE!!!!
So for those of ya'll that don't know the details of Matthew's arrival, I'll fill you in!
On Tuesday the 24th we went in for our 39 week appointment where I was dilated to a 3. They decided to admit me to the hospital that night at 6:00pm. They put some type of medication in me to ripen my cervix and kept it for the night. I couldn't eat after that until Matthew was born. My sweet girls came to visit me too! Chris and I didn't sleep a wink that night.
The next morning they measured me and I was at a 4, so they decided to pump me with some pitocin to get my contractions going a little stronger. At 9:00am my doctor broke my water and from then on my contractions started coming more and more frequent and stronger. Each time they measured they could feel his head wedged way down there. (From all the walking they said! :) Everyone thought that Matthew would be here by lunch! We were stoked!
At 1:30pm I decided I needed my epidural, the pain was getting a little intense and I was already exhausted. The epidural, although very worth it, hurt me more than the delivery. The first time the anesthesiologist couldn't thread the needle and I ended up getting a whole epidural again. Oh man was that painful! Come 6:30pm, note we're now into dinner time and I still hadn't eaten anything except ice chips since 6:00pm the night before. Anyways, I was finally at a 10 and the family and friends that had been waiting with us at the hospital all day were sent out to the waiting room while Chris and I got prepared to start this incredible journey. The nurses wanted to see how much Matthew would move down on his own with the contractions without pushing. Come 7:00pm, he was ready and so was I. However, 7:00 is shift change for those of ya'll that don't know the hospital schedules. The nurses that had been working with me all day long were supposed to go home without getting to meet Matthew, but they wouldn't have that. So we had the day shift and night shift nurses there to help Matthew join the world. We had to call the doctor and get the room prepped for delivery, while Chris turned the Ranger game on in the background. At 7:14pm I had my first push and by 7:21pm, our son Matthew Kaiser O'Steen was born; 7 pounds 3.4 ounces, and 18 3/4 inches long. Chris and I were in total shock when he came out and we saw him for the first time. But when we heard his cry for the very first time, neither one of us could hold back the tears. We are so proud of our sweet, beautiful little man!
By 7:45 Matthew, Chris and I welcomed our first visitors. Mama and Papa K and Uncle Jeremy! They have been smitten ever since. We had 21 more visitors that night come in and out of the room, holding Matthew, taking pictures, and giving us love! Chris left to pick up his parents who flew in from California at 11:00pm, so Grandma and Grandpa got to meet their 7th grandchild the night he was born as well. We said goodbye an goodnight around midnight that night, to only get 3 hours of off and on sleep that night as well. Between crying, feeding, and the constant knock on the door from nurses checking in on Matthew and I, it was a rough night of sleep.
The next morning our first visitors came at 9:00am and until 9:00pm we had 27 more visitors come meet Matthew and congratulate Chris and I. He was such a spoiled little baby boy, and we were by far the most popular patients at Flower Mound Presby. Friday Chris went to pick up Kylie from the airport and she got to meet her little brother for the very first time. She couldn't believe her eyes and loved him without end! She immediately changed into her "Big Sister" shirt that her Aunt Sammy made her and sat down to hold him! A few hours later, we packed up and headed home! What a relief to see our house, our puppies, and sleep in our bed. Outside our home was a beautiful sign announcing Matthew's arrival to the neighborhood. Since then we have been home for 10 days now, and Matthew goes for his 2 week check up tomorrow. I can't believe it. People always say the time goes quickly, but it is insane. He's sleeping wonderfully and even gives me 4-5 hours at a time in the night. Breastfeeding was extremely difficult and frustrating for both Matthew and I, so currently we are pumping every 2 hours and feeding it to him in a bottle. He's still getting the breastmilk, but just out of a bottle instead. I LOVE IT! He's growing and getting cuter and cuter as each hour passes. I'm so in love with this sweet sweet baby boy!
This is all for now, but don't worry I'll be posting more pictures and stories as the days go on! :)

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

False Alarm!

Wow 38 1/2 weeks! Disgusting! Well I had a very eventful day yesterday as Chris rented 3 movies from the Red Box and we layed on the couch and watched them all all-day! I woke up that morning with a very painful cramp in my lower left side abdomen, so Chris stayed home to see if it was anything. It was very sensitive to the touch and kind of felt like a pulled muscle.

Around 2:00pm, sure enough I started having contractions! The first few hours it was about every 45 minutes lasting 40 seconds or so. Then as the day went on they started getting closer together, 30 minutes apart, then 20, and lasting longer, 50 seconds, 60 seconds at a time. I took a nice hot shower, Chris and I took the puppies out twice for walks, and my parents came over to cook dinner for us, just so I could relax and move things along.

But when I went to sleep around 10:30, my contractions were every 20 minutes lasting 55-60 seconds each. I woke up a couple more times in the night to feel them, and then by midnight they faded away. And all I'm left with is having to pee once an hour now! What a false feeling of hope Chris and I felt this morning.

However because of yesterday's events, we now have both the camera and video camera fully charged, and our hospital bag packed. Just in case the next time this happens, the outcome is better!

We're going to do some more walking, making love, and praying today, so hopefully my next blog won't be so disappointing. Doctor's appointment tomorrow morning, hopefully she gives us better news as well! :)

Thursday, August 12, 2010

OUR BABY OFFICIALLY HAS HIS OWN BEDROOM/NURSERY!!!
We have finally finished Matthew's bedroom!
This included about 6 loads of laundry with our special baby detergent, over 70 thank you cards, stuff on the walls, spending giftcards, waiting for packages, and tons and tons of organization! We can't wait to bring him home so he can see his new room! I'm sure he will love it as much as we do!
Notice how for each sport he has 2 teams to cheer for! Mommy's and Daddy's! We had so much fun creating a bedroom for our son, now to see if his personality matches the room! Please come see the room and our baby as soon as he arrives! :)

Oh, we have an appointment again tomorrow, hopefully they give me some exciting news to get this baby out sooner than later! :)

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

AUGUST!

Well here we are August has officially arrived. I can't believe it! Matthew could seriously be here any day this month. What an extremely exciting thought! Sunday the 8th I hit 37 weeks which is full term. Chris and I would love to have the baby as soon as possible, but I know he'll come when he's ready.

My brother Jeremy has a birthday of June 7, 1989, which looks like 6-7-89, and my cousin has a birthday of September 5, 1995, which looks like 9-5-95, so maybe it will run in the family of boys for Matthew to be born August 9th. 8-9-10. Hey, that's only 5 days away! :)

We've got our final baby shower this weekend with the Carrollton Fire Department. It's actually a joined baby shower with Steven and Dacia Cato as well. For those of ya'll who don't know the Cato's are having a little boy on August 24th. Tanner and Matthew will probably be best friends! Anyways, this shower is going to be a diapers, wipes, and gift-cards shower. We are excited about that, hopefully we can get enough to last us a few months!

After this weekend, I should have Matthew's nursery all finished and will definitely post pictures of it. Plus, I always love visitors! :)

Well we have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, so hopefully all goes well, and I'll keep you posted on Matthew's progress. He has dropped this week, so that's a good sign we are rounding off the end! :)

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Maturnity Pictures!

So Chris and I decided we should document this special time in our life.

Well I don't feel sexy or beautiful, but this time is just a short 9 months in my lifetime, and we are so excited for what the future holds for our family.


Our good friend Judy Keown offered to take our pictures in her home studio and man are we impressed!



We are 31 1/2 weeks in these pictures and couldn't be more excited for Matthew to join our sweet, beautiful family.